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Parents of ANGEL


We were given very warm welcome in Bangalore and the people here are very nice but hospital N.I.M.HANS was bit rough to us .they were very casul in approach and THE senior most doctor Mr.sheshadri was splendid with this type of questions on first day “WHY IN THIS EARTH YOU HAVE COME TO BANGALORE ?DIDN’T YOU HAVE DOCTORS THERE IN YOUR STATE WHY OVER CROWDING HERE .THIS IS YOUR CHILD ?HE IS AUTISTIC .SEE?WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS VISIT ?WHAT DO YOU WANT?


And then to his fellow doctors”ADMIT HIM AND EDUCATE HIS PARENTS”


And to us “ YOU CAN ADMIT HERE YOUR CHILD AND THEN WE’LL SEE WHAT WE CAN DO TO SOLVE HIS PROBLEM”


Then to fellow doctors in English( thinking us illiterate)”WHY THEY COME HERE .I DON’T UNDERSTAND .WE ARE NOT GOD .THEY RUN EVERY WHERE FIRST TO VELLORE THAN BANGALORE THAN AIIMS ………….YOU KNOW MY BOOK IS SELECTED FOR NCERT AND NOW THEY ARE NOT GIVING ME CREDIT ……………. BLAH…. BLAH”


They admitted my son to child psychology deptt.


First day there was doctor who recorded history and said we train him in coming 3 weeks and then…


Next day no scene


Another next day and then 3 days passed away then a junior doctor came for whom we were not more than a project asked us to buy a book “ME “


Then again no scene no next 3 days and then there was senior doctors round where we not called then after 5 days our doctor asked “HAVE YOU READ THE BOOK ?TRY READING IT AND THEN I WILL EXPLAIN IN DETAIL”


Then again no scene for 3 days .untill then 10days were already passed withput any official help and we were getting more and more frustrated .we made our mind leaving that place and told office that we have booked flight tickets so we wanted to leave early . and they readily agreed. to my surprise they had nothing to offer me.i asked for a meeting with senior doctors which was arranged next dayas it was his round day


Next day


The hospital was cleaned properly and nurses were well dressed and area where we stayed was full of doctors and then ……


I was called….before I could say something HE said “HE HAS POTENTIAL ,HE HAS BRAIN .SEE!SEE! WHAT U HAVE TO DO IS GIVE HIM DIRECTION AS THAT WE HAVE IN SHIP…….RADAR”


I said sir I m leaving this place soon .


“DON’T WORRY WE GIVE ALL THE GUIDENCE IN WRITTEN “


“Sir my child has a sleeping problem “


“DOCTORS WE SEE IT OK YOU MAY GO NOW”


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Next day a doctors came and gave me a paper …which reads ….


“MADAM WILL YOU PROVIDE YOU CHILD FOR 72 hrs SURVELENCE UNDER CAMERAS FOR OUR REASERCH PROGRAMME A STUDY IF AUTIC CHILD SLEEP MORETHAN MENTAL RETARDED CHILD OR SAME OR THE PATTERN IS DIFFERENT …………………….XXX…..XXX….”


I WAS SHOCKED they were just worried about their project not my child’s sleep problem which fortunately was not so dangerous .


So over all this is my experience with NIMHANS doctors







p.s : all the views expressed are solely of a mother .blogger is just publishing them in this blog for your comments on this problem of society.


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