skull injury .feelings continued-

Vishal –







Age – 10 yrs


Problem:repeats sentence again and again .














The wonder boy tells us that almighty has decided every bit of our life .


The well mannerd boy will greet you at the door and tell you all about admission ward . places we can find……special ward ,water ,….playground ……..he will surprise you with his brilliant talks that you will never believe that he is a patient of child psychology ward.but than you will notice a big cut mark in skull ,something similar to Amir Khan’s hair cut in the film “Ghajni”


Yes he is victim of fate .


Born in a good family .the parents had stored thousand of thoughts for him which were shattered on April 15th .the family had organized a puja at their village home whole of the village was on invite list and there was a big family get together that night .parents were busy in household works and the kids were playing ball .as it was getting dark out side the kids decided to play on roof where they had big lights .and then






fate twisted






it was 11 p.m at night to catch ball vishal slipped off the roof and fell straight to the ground .smashing his head to concrete floor.head badly injured ,skull broke into uncountable pieces ,and blood all around .the bang gave the mother a bit worry . she came out and saw her worst nightmare to come alive and was fainted on the spot .father took Vishal and his uncles carried the pieces of skull which were scattered all around and they rushed to the hospital .


It was tough to rearrange the broken pieces of skull but the doctors tried their best to fix him and pull him out of the jaws of death. but few pieces were not there so they put some synthetic material to fix it .since than the life of the kid and his aprentsa changed .The kid was studying in class 5when this accident happened now he cannot read without his mother help .his memory his thinking ,his temperament had affected the worse.






They stayed for 3 months on Bangalore and felt the same pain what angel’s mother has faced


“Discrimination on the basis of state and language .”


They sticked to the place because they were getting best treatment with low cost and best efficency of neurology department of Bangalore .the kid had improved a lot .






He wanted to play with other kids but because of his mind distraction they don’t let him play .if he sees any ball he jumps in excitement and urges to get it .but his mother had stopped buying balls for him . It is very hard to watch a mother denying ball to a kid who had got himself into all this trouble for a ball


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Parents of ANGEL


We were given very warm welcome in Bangalore and the people here are very nice but hospital N.I.M.HANS was bit rough to us .they were very casul in approach and THE senior most doctor Mr.sheshadri was splendid with this type of questions on first day “WHY IN THIS EARTH YOU HAVE COME TO BANGALORE ?DIDN’T YOU HAVE DOCTORS THERE IN YOUR STATE WHY OVER CROWDING HERE .THIS IS YOUR CHILD ?HE IS AUTISTIC .SEE?WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS VISIT ?WHAT DO YOU WANT?


And then to his fellow doctors”ADMIT HIM AND EDUCATE HIS PARENTS”


And to us “ YOU CAN ADMIT HERE YOUR CHILD AND THEN WE’LL SEE WHAT WE CAN DO TO SOLVE HIS PROBLEM”


Then to fellow doctors in English( thinking us illiterate)”WHY THEY COME HERE .I DON’T UNDERSTAND .WE ARE NOT GOD .THEY RUN EVERY WHERE FIRST TO VELLORE THAN BANGALORE THAN AIIMS ………….YOU KNOW MY BOOK IS SELECTED FOR NCERT AND NOW THEY ARE NOT GIVING ME CREDIT ……………. BLAH…. BLAH”


They admitted my son to child psychology deptt.


First day there was doctor who recorded history and said we train him in coming 3 weeks and then…


Next day no scene


Another next day and then 3 days passed away then a junior doctor came for whom we were not more than a project asked us to buy a book “ME “


Then again no scene no next 3 days and then there was senior doctors round where we not called then after 5 days our doctor asked “HAVE YOU READ THE BOOK ?TRY READING IT AND THEN I WILL EXPLAIN IN DETAIL”


Then again no scene for 3 days .untill then 10days were already passed withput any official help and we were getting more and more frustrated .we made our mind leaving that place and told office that we have booked flight tickets so we wanted to leave early . and they readily agreed. to my surprise they had nothing to offer me.i asked for a meeting with senior doctors which was arranged next dayas it was his round day


Next day


The hospital was cleaned properly and nurses were well dressed and area where we stayed was full of doctors and then ……


I was called….before I could say something HE said “HE HAS POTENTIAL ,HE HAS BRAIN .SEE!SEE! WHAT U HAVE TO DO IS GIVE HIM DIRECTION AS THAT WE HAVE IN SHIP…….RADAR”


I said sir I m leaving this place soon .


“DON’T WORRY WE GIVE ALL THE GUIDENCE IN WRITTEN “


“Sir my child has a sleeping problem “


“DOCTORS WE SEE IT OK YOU MAY GO NOW”


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Next day a doctors came and gave me a paper …which reads ….


“MADAM WILL YOU PROVIDE YOU CHILD FOR 72 hrs SURVELENCE UNDER CAMERAS FOR OUR REASERCH PROGRAMME A STUDY IF AUTIC CHILD SLEEP MORETHAN MENTAL RETARDED CHILD OR SAME OR THE PATTERN IS DIFFERENT …………………….XXX…..XXX….”


I WAS SHOCKED they were just worried about their project not my child’s sleep problem which fortunately was not so dangerous .


So over all this is my experience with NIMHANS doctors







p.s : all the views expressed are solely of a mother .blogger is just publishing them in this blog for your comments on this problem of society.


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As described earlier I wanted to share my experiences of N.I.M.H.A.N.S a reputed hospital of Bangalore for mental and handicapped but before I want you all to witness the state which we all name by names mental & handicap



Let us name this tour FEELINGS

p.s please let me know ur feelings .names are intact.






ANGEL


Age: 6 yrs


Problem: speech disorder


No birth problem










The cutest face in the area, this child parents belongs from a good academic back ground but both were unaware of this kind of problem .the child understands emotion but can’t express it ,he can identify known faces from crowd but can’t name them he can identify food names, animal names but doesn’t call his parents by names MOM &DAD.the child can be easily pass as a normal child and doesn’t show any symptom and also studies in home.










Detection:AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDER


Remedy by doctors:special school


Mixing with other peer group.


Taking park


Problem faced: the child doesn’t calls MOM &DAD and this is the silent killer for the parents


The child is not admitted in any school as he can’t speak and no one is going to give extra attention in school .they just keep him for 1st semester take the money and expel him later .


Sarvo shiksha :they provide 1 teacher per week for this kind of children and rest of the week these children are left out and if the special teacher is absent then next week appointment.


Special school : no school does work on autistic children they are only taught to do their own work .maximum school work on deaf &blind ,M.R as they are easy to teach.


Society problem :people doen’t allow their small kids to play with them .they fright their child may learn misbehaviour from them.


People just have fun in discussing this problem


People discard these children and show fear maximum times and make the parents nervous


They are noticeable in parks ,metro stations schools and so easily avoided in that parts and other parents pull their children away from them.






What a mother need :acceptance from the society


School to be more friendly to themand not to discard them


Special school should experiment new provisions for those who are


Better than regular AUTISTIC child but less than M.R.


Some doctors who can help them not just give them books to read. And not treat them as new assignment














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